Why I Super Hate Dating

Don't quote me, I don't hate guys and I am not neither a Man-hater, and never yet a man-eater.

For some reasons, I got to a point that whenever a guy would start asking me out, I don't think twice of saying "I'll think about it".

Countless reality-based experiences can dig why is to this. It's the best teacher anyway. Here goes the sharing and talking.

*Guys would only asked you out only of two things: Either you're a bombshell-full-of-booby-no-brainy hot girl, or simply-Jessie that hits him off the floor. Either way, always, always be at your own risks. If you have never been asked out for the following reasons, please don't question me at all, for I may never know the answer neither.

*It is very true coming from almost all the guys blobs, that they soooo hating courtship. Be careful on this kind! I dare you! It is very true that they do hate it. Of course, who wants to take full time out off the race where they can just hit up on some gas and move fast to Finish Line? But it says something more about that phrase, more of their attitude really, that never they would say it. Surely, they hate courtships, because they just love flirting with you. Serious knocked-off guy wouldn't mind time and space spending with someone they dearly aim, nevertheless, both parties wants to speed up the communication.

*Talks off too many and show-off too much attitudes. First impressions last, only if they've been watching that commercial tagline too much on their formative years. Guys who asks too much and talks too much whether you or himself is never a good catch at all. There's more of being an engineer than an architect, but surely, labor of love and grace goes to the carpenter who just listens and never complains. Too bad, too rare to find such type. And if, they might be taken and too bad, they're happy being with their homos.

*He asks too much! It's madness if the guy would want to interrogate most of your how', who's, why's, and everything until they dig in more reasons to convince themselves to actually like you without sounding like a talkshow host. Definitely, in this situation, don't be too excited of the fact that they actually like you, coz in reality they just wanna convinced themselves that you're more of an interesting topic on boo-who's-guy's-talk than somebody they would really like to spend much time even without talking. Real men TALKS and seldom ASKS. Believe me, you might be the food in the chain of their ego.

*In most cases, never date a guy who just dragged off on a relationship. Unless, in the first place your proclaiming stupidity out of being respected. You'll never be their answer, and won't ever be the woman he would love after sessions of talks about his distressed painful break-ups. In this case, it's either you're desperate or not just thinking at all.

*This is what interests me most and at the same time pisses me off. Never ever date a guy who will intentionally befriending you because he likes you. This type is worst than the most annoying fact at all. I tell you, after several few weeks off, the amount of attention they're giving you would never be the same as what they first started. Do the analogy, motives=results. So, if they're motive is to LIKE you more than a friend, it will always stay that way, no matter how friendly he could go. Once a guy, tells you that he likes you before actually being friends with you, he is just simply saying, "I am expecting something in return". Hey, I know, guys would deny that. In fact all of them knew that, it's just hard for them to feed the reality out of subconscious reasoning. If somebody, would rebut to this, he might be guilty in charge.

*If a guy asked you out and never would tell you the details of date, think TWICE before saying "yes". This type is like a marriage out of no proposals. I tell you, if in the first date, he just wants to be spontaneous and no plans at all, this tells the exact same thing. He has no plans of getting you in his life. Meaning, I may never be sure, but in most cases, they are interested but never quite enough to be held responsible to anything -- of you in his life, of you being with him. These are the kind of guys that would dare asked you out and leave all the details out of your hand, like "Hey, are you free tomorrow?", you answer, "Where to?", and that would be the end of him planning and would just say "It's up to you". Believe me, the whole relationship would be "It's all up to you, girl!". Be cautious on them for they would mean to be with you as long as they benefit out of the date from you.

Truthfully, dating is necessity on creating your own plot of your love story. But once, it had been started wrong, for sure, you'll end up pounding some tears. Be careful. Never get me wrong. Know the game and never play with them, you won't establish relationship in that way. If you wanna end up happy, find someone who would give that same amount of happiness to you without too much effort.

He's a man, deserved to be loved, but you're a woman worth to be cared for who you are. And no amount of respect could a man give if he starts thinking out of his ego and preserve the relationship he has with the woman he likes.

Spread the love. Start it right!

~namelessAdobo

Something ME..

Here's the week's something too personal about the Blogger herself.

I'm not much of a writer. But I write what I feel even if it's out-of-tune at all. At least I could express my insanity and won't have me schizophrenic at the end of the day.

A good writer writes with his heart-open.

I blog, and I just blog. That's why I never ought to be an author. I might have tried it once or twice but nevertheless, I wouldn't sell my pen-strokes if I knew it wouldn't make the Market in anyway. Like everyone else, I very much respect this phrase: "all good things comes for FREE!"

Believe me, I could make it to Forbes Richest Girl in the Universe if I could only sell my gift of listening.

*I adore my Creator. And I'm one of HIS die-hard FAN!
*I LOVE LIFE as much as lots of people hating it
*I Live one day at a time
*I do say QUIT, but you never got to see me doing it even if I'm really pissed-off
*If patience is a virtue I can make for a living, I'm a well-known famous celebrity for it
*I'm such a cry-baby, but preffered not to be born sore-loser, neither bitter.
*Whenever I say, I do and whenever I do, I say.
*You may find me Boring, but the *F* I care. I'm not made for anyone's entertainment by the way.
*People hating me so much that I do care to not bother at all. First impressions last, yeah maybe for dumb-ass no-brainer.
*I'm very much opinionated that Hitler, if existent, might want me first on his death list.
*I always want to find a way, even if there's no way.
*Might find me stupid, but eventually, I'll learn the whole craft before you knew I'm too smart for being apprehended.
*I say patience is patience. If I don't like you, well, be patient.
*I'm too good to be true, that people want me dead for seeing their worst frustrations at all.
*People's fantasies are their greatest insecurities whenever they start gossiping about me.

... and there goes my list that won't end up in here. Nontheless, you see me dead.

Cheer up! Life's good! And never it has been easy.

~namelessAdobo

**~IM A NO PRINCESS…IM A WARRIOR–CRYING IS MY ONLY WEAPON AND GOD IS MY GREATEST STRENGTH~** ‘im just an ordinary girl w a common life.. I’ve traveLed a disTance and toOk d sAme tYpicaL roAd in thiS LifE aS whaT evRyboDY eLse diD, fouGht tHe sAme bATtle, wiN tHe sAme vcTOry anD criEd fOR tHe sAme rEAson.. My timE wilL soOn cOme tO an end.. My nAme wiLl soon b wriTten on a tHomBsTOne anD my dEeds wiLl soOn bE fORgoTten.. But i’Ve LivEd tO seEk foR mY haPpinesS aNd fiNdiNg wHo i aM anD tO me, tHis hAs aLwAys bEen my pUrpose…’

Politics Explained for Dummies

Politics Explained

FEUDALISM: You have two cows. Your lord takes some of the milk.

PURE SOCIALISM: You have two cows. The government takes them and puts them in a barn with everyone else’s cows. You have to take care of all of the cows. The government gives you as much milk as you need.

BUREAUCRATIC SOCIALISM: You have two cows. The government takes them and put them in a barn with everyone else’s cows. They are cared for by ex-chicken farmers. You have to take care of the chickens the government took from the chicken farmers. The government gives you as much milk and eggs as the regulations say you need.

FASCISM: You have two cows. The government takes both, hires you to take care of them and sells you the milk.

PURE COMMUNISM: You have two cows. Your neighbors help you take care of them, and you all share the milk.

RUSSIAN COMMUNISM: You have two cows. You have to take care of them, but the government takes all the milk.

CAMBODIAN COMMUNISM: You have two cows. The government takes both of them and shoots you.

DICTATORSHIP: You have two cows. The government takes both and drafts you.

PURE DEMOCRACY: You have two cows. Your neighbors decide who gets the milk.

REPRESENTATIVE DEMOCRACY: You have two cows. Your neighbors pick someone to tell you who gets the milk.

BUREAUCRACY: You have two cows. At first the government regulates what you can feed them and when you can milk them. Then it pays you not to milk them. Then it takes both, shoots one, milks the other and pours the milk down the drain. Then it requires you to fill out forms accounting for the missing cows.

PURE ANARCHY: You have two cows. Either you sell the milk at a fair price or your neighbors try to take the cows and kill you.

LIBERTARIAN/ANARCHO-CAPITALISM: You have two cows. You sell one and buy a bull.

SURREALISM: You have two giraffes. The government requires you to take harmonica lessons.

(Source: www.sjgames.com/illuminati/politics.html)

10 Amazing Life Lessons You Can Learn From Albert Einstein

10 Amazing Lessons from Albert Einstein:

1. Follow Your Curiosity
   

   “I have no special talent. I am only passionately curious.”

   
   What piques your curiosity? I am curious as to what causes one person to succeed while another person fails; this is why I’ve spent years studying success. What are you most curious about? The pursuit of your curiosity is the secret to your success.
2. Perseverance is Priceless
   

   “It’s not that I’m so smart; it’s just that I stay with problems longer.”

   
   Through perseverance the turtle reached the ark. Are you willing to persevere until you get to your intended destination? They say the entire value of the postage stamp consist in its ability to stick to something until it gets there. Be like the postage stamp; finish the race that you’ve started!
3. Focus on the Present
   

   “Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply not giving the kiss the attention it deserves.”

   
   My father always says you cannot ride two horses at the same time. I like to say, you can do anything, but not everything. Learn to be present where you are; give your all to whatever you’re currently doing.
   
   Focused energy is power, and it’s the difference between success and failure.
4. The Imagination is Powerful
   

   “Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions. Imagination is more important than knowledge.”

   
   Are you using your imagination daily? Einstein said the imagination is more important than knowledge! Yourimagination pre-plays your future. Einstein went on to say, “The true sign of intelligence is not knowledge, butimagination.” Are you exercising your “imagination muscles” daily, don’t let something as powerful as yourimagination lie dormant.
5. Make Mistakes
   

   “A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new.”

   
   Never be afraid of making a mistake. A mistake is not a failure. Mistakes can make you better, smarter and faster, if you utilize them properly. Discover the power of making mistakes. I’ve said this before, and I’ll say it again, if you want to succeed, triple the amount of mistakes that you make.
6. Live in the Moment
   

   “I never think of the future - it comes soon enough.”

   
   The only way to properly address your future is to be as present as possible “in the present.”
   
   You cannot “presently” change yesterday or tomorrow, so it’s of supreme importance that you dedicate all of your efforts to “right now.” It’s the only time that matters, it’s the only time there is.
7. Create Value
   

   “Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value.”

   
   Don’t waste your time trying to be successful, spend your time creating value. If you’re valuable, then you will attract success.
   
   Discover the talents and gifts that you possess, learn how to offer those talents and gifts in a way that most benefits others.
   
   Labor to be valuable and success will chase you down.
8. Don’t Expect Different Results
   

   “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

   
   You can’t keep doing the same thing everyday and expect different results. In other words, you can’t keep doing the same workout routine and expect to look differently. In order for your life to change, you must change, to the degree that you change your actions and your thinking is to the degree that your life will change.
9. Knowledge Comes From Experience
   

   “Information is not knowledge. The only source of knowledge is experience.”

   
   Knowledge comes from experience. You can discuss a task, but discussion will only give you a philosophical understanding of it; you must experience the task first hand to “know it.” What’s the lesson? Get experience! Don’t spend your time hiding behind speculative information, go out there and do it, and you will have gained priceless knowledge.
10. Learn the Rules and Then Play Better
    

    “You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.”

    
    To put it all in simple terms, there are two things that you must do. The first thing you must do is to learn the rules of the game that you’re playing. It doesn’t sound exciting, but it’s vital. Secondly, you must commit to play the game better than anyone else. If you can do these two things, success will be yours!

Thank you for reading and be sure to pass this article along!

(credit for: mrselfdevelopment.com)

~raiene

Ponder This:

Be thankful that sunrises are free, or else we couldn’t afford them.

Be thankful that behind every storm is surely the rainbow of hope and future sunshine.

Be thankful for mistakes because life would be boring if were all perfect.

Be thankful for stress so that we can be reminded to relax and balance our life.

Have a thousand and one reason to be thankful.!

Just Like The Rain... Everything You Complain In Life Would Be Washed Out..

Feeling sad? Awful? Distracted? Criticized? Hated? and the like?


What extremes can one goes if negative values have been added in life. It seems like a stone on a flowing river that stops the journey of it.


I tell you, whatever that you may be experiencing right now... sooner or later, it won't lasts. We are under the same planet, under the same sky, under the same rain that'll wash off all hopelessness you could ever throw life to.


At the end of the day, sudden spark of hope will surely be there lying still as raindrops are.

I Want A President That...

I want a dyke for president.

I want a person with AIDS for president and I want a fag for vice president and I want someone with no health insurance and I want someone who grew up in a place where the earth is so saturated with toxic waste that they didn’t have a choice about getting leukemia.

I want a president that had an abortion at sixteen and I want a candidate who isn’t the lesser of two evils and I want a president who lost their last lover to AIDS, who still sees that in their eyes every time they lay down to rest, who held their lover in their arms and knew they were dying.

I want a president with no airconditioning, a president who has stood on line at the clinic, at the DMV, at the welfare office and has been unemployed and layed off and sexually harassed and gaybashed and deported.

I want someone who has spent the night in the thombs and had a cross burned on their lawn and survived rape.

I want someone who has been in love and been hurt, who respects sex, who has made mistaked and learned from them.

I want a Black woman for president, from a third-world country. Someone who toils sweat and blood for a living. I want someone who won’t make big deals of what race they came from.

I want someone with bad teeth and an attitude, someone who has has eaten that nasty hospital food, someone who made to finish their diploma but still can’t practice what they’ve accomplished for.

Someone who crossdressed and has done drugs and been in therapy. I want someone who has committed civil disobedience.

And I want to know why this isn’t possible. I want to know why we started learning somewhere down the line that a president is always a clown: always a John and never a hooker. Always a boss and never a worker, always a liar , always a thief and NEVER CAUGHT.

…and most especially I want a president who’s faith can’t be demonstrated out of persecution and never experienced Christian Freedom to profess Faith.

~raiene

(as inspired by **** and all credit shall be upon them)

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